12.14.2011

midweek confessions



This is quite theraputic if I do say so myself ...

- Last Friday we simply stayed at home.  Mark watched a movie and I caught up on blogs, facebook (since my app refuses to show me messages and such), etc.  It may sound boring but it was the best Friday in a while!

- I hate grocery shopping alone.  Mark and I always go together.  I know we won't always be able to do this (with the addition of kids and such) but I really like that time together.  Mark was out of town on Saturday and I had to go alone. It wasn't much fun.  There was no one to joke with and make decisions with.

- I have been blessed with a spouse that I agree with 99.99% of the time.  We never argue.  We just simply get along.  If we ever do disagree then it's usually resolved really quickly because we would both rather just compromise then "be right".  With that being said .. it's not always perfect.  Example?  My husband is an overly-aggressive driver (my opinion) and it makes me C.R.A.Z.Y.  This is something recently (in the last year or so) that has really started to grate on my nerves.  I'm trying to keep things in perspective but I take it personally sometimes when I ask him to slow down and then he goes THE EXACT SPEEDLIMIT out of spite.  I'm confessing this now because we argued about it on Sunday.  He basically hurt my feelings and then we just didn't talk for the 5 minutes it took us to get to where we were going.  That doesn't sound bad but it certainly isn't constructive and we need to figure this out.  I NEVER want to be "that wife" that nags all the time and he just doesn't take me seriously which hurts my feelings a lot.  we'll figure it out...

- On a lighter note .. I am totally obsessed with grey nail polish right now.  I keep thinking I need to move on to a different color or something but I keep wanting to go back to it.  I think it's the perfect winter shade.  Not too harsh like black but more neutral and interesting than nude.  Love it!

- Finally .. my neice is due Friday and I may or may not be SO FREAKING EXCITED.  I am trying really hard to leave her parents alone and not smother.  I've really kept my distance because I know they have (obviously!) a lot on their plate right now with their first-born on the way but I can't help to want to quiz them about everything (since I can't be there).  also .. I might be a tad jealous. stupid baby fever...

10 comments:

  1. totally agree about the grocery shopping. Jon and I went together 99% of the time before baby J. Now we still manage to go together about half the time. Love your confessions :) I'll start doing my own maybe next week :). Congrats on your niece coming so soon!!!! Exciting!!!!! Love you my friend

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  2. thanks for joining in and the little shout out today! love your list... now im going to hsve to go get some gray nail polish!

    p.s. i'm curious about your blog title as I have a house WITH elephants!

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  3. The short of it is this:

    You know the saying "the elephant in the room"? Well my husband and I vowed that we would never let the elephant go unspoken; that we would always be a house without elephants.

    I guess it kind of stuck :)

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  4. I'm obsessed with gray nail polish as well! I've got a grayish plum that is my new favorite right now! & Yes...enjoy the time with your hubs now, for simple things like boring Friday nights & grocery shopping together. I don't remember what our life like that was like before we had kids!

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  5. I used to have Essie "Chinchilly" but I literally used the entire bottle up (who does that!?). It's a great purply gray. I got the current gray from my Secret Santa at work, and I do love it, but now that I am thinking back on Chinchilly I might need to go get another bottle ;)

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  6. found you from E's link up... my husband is an overly aggressive driver also so I can totally relate.

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  7. Don't worry too much about bugging your brother and sister about your niece.

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